Happy Valentine’s Day! I hope you have the best day ever!
My fondest Valentine memory was one that I spent alone. I could not begin to tell you what Joe Blow gave me this year or that. I spent part of last night trying my best to remember. The only one that I could recall was one I spent alone and I pampered myself. It was wonderful! Therefore, I am going to do something different this year. Today, I am going to make sure my grandmother does not have one thing in her house that she needs doing. She is Queen for the day. I want her to feel special. She is special.
I think today would be the perfect day if everyone did the unexpected. Today is not just for lovers but for everyone special in our lives. So, I am going to share the love. Here are some of my idea’s:
Call an old friend that is special to you and tell them Happy Valentine’s Day. If it is possible, take them a card.
If you know someone is spending the day alone or they do not have a significant other, send them flowers or a card. Send both and do not sign the card. Make them smile.
Take your nieces, nephews, or cousins out for ice cream. If you know a child who has had a tough time this year, take them.
Surprise an elderly family member with a gift. Especially if they are in a nursing home. Would you not just love to see their face light up when balloons were delivered? Deliver the gift in person.
You may know someone who has lost a close family member or child, be sure to send them a some candy and a card today.
The possibilities are endless. The best way to make sure a person does not feel alone on this day is to let them know they are special. Make them smile. Include your children in sharing their love with someone. Have them give their siblings a card. Let them be a part of making a difference in someone else’s life so they can learn how wonderful it is to give.
Make someone smile today and create a memory that will warm their hearts forever!
Cut your cable bill. Do you really need that many channels anyway?
Reduce your bills. Ask your service providers if they have bundled services. The best way is to only have the things you really need.
Don’t impulse shop. Never go shopping when you are depressed. Never go to the grocery store hungry. Make a list of the things you want and wait 2 weeks. If you still want something on your list than budget for it.
Work for yourself. Find something you really like to do and figure out a way to make money at it.
Wear your clothes longer. Easier said than done for me. Salvation Army is wonderful. I am lucky because I live in Scottsboro, Alabama which is home to Unclaimed Baggage!
Cut down on your food costs. Make meals at home. Do not go out to eat.
Cut back on cell phone usage. Most people have internet either at work or home use it instead.
Put it in the bank. Do you have at least 3 months income saved in case of emergency? If not stop spending and save.
Don’t feed bad habits. Especially gambling and drinking. Do you smoke? I figured out my cigarette bill and I could have taken my kids to Disneyland at least once per year already which would have been one item marked off my bucket list!
Use condoms. Kids are expensive……. Thats so awful. I love my children they are a gift from God! If you are young and single, you may want to think about this one!!
Recently employed as a Supervisor at a group home for mentally challenged adults and teenagers, I loved my job! However, there never seemed to be enough hours in the day to balance work with family. I am a single parent with three children. Three children plus twenty-eight more if you counted my family at the group home whom I love dearly. Let’s not forget that along with three other Supervisors our thirty something employees were at times like children themselves. After three years, I had to make a choice between my real family who I felt as if I were neglecting and the clients at the group homes. I am going to share with you some tips on balancing the two. I hope that if you are someone who is feeling as overwhelmed as I that this post will help you.
Share the load. Unfortunately, I did not have this choice but a lot of people do so use it to your benefit. It should not be one person’s job to work, take care of the kids or older family members, and household chores. Get your partner or other family members to help. I had a bad habit of thinking I was the only person capable of doing something. fortunately, I found that was just not the case.
Slow down and do not sweat the small stuff. You don’t have to wash the dishes every single day. So what if the house doesn’t get vacuumed weekly. Sometimes its simpler said than done but learn to let them go and don’t feel bummed for doing it.
Set priorities. Take charge and make that list of things that you need to get done. Prioritize them. I think sometimes it was easier for me to feel overwhelmed and not to just take charge.
Slow down. I have learned the hard way that life is just way to short. Don’t let it pass you by. Take time to stop and enjoy the people who love you. Remember to take time for yourself. Find ways to distance yourself from the things that causes you the most stress.
Find a new career. Some careers take up more of your time than others. Some are more stressful than others. If you find yourself needing more time for you and your family explore other career options. You may find that some careers are more flexible.
Change jobs. If a career change is not an option, you could look for a new job. You may even be able to negotiate with your employer a new position. It could involve a job search, or it may involve temping or working part-time. You may even try becoming a consultant or free-lancing. Explore your options.
Don’t procrastinate! Alot of feeling as if your overwhelmed is due to disorganization and procrastination. Make that list as discussed above. Be sure to set realistic goals and don’t put off doing what is on your list.
Find a way to simplify your life. I think as human beings we try to take on too many responsibilities. We try to do too much. We try to own too much. Learn to say no. Change your lifestyle. Get rid of clutter and baggage in your house and in your life!
Life is a process just like striving for balance in your life. Figure out what works for you. Celebrate your successes and don’t dwell on your failures!